Ambivalence

                              
                              

 Avoiding something doesn't always mean that you hate it,

it could also mean that you want it,

but you just know that it isn't right..

What Women Really Want?

Isn't this the question almost every man out there seems to have? Almost every man wants to know what women really want in a man when it comes to all the aspects of life.

 You see women always say they want their man to be such and such but never reveal the real factors they are truly looking for. Now you are about to discover some of the most little known facts women never share with men. Read on to discover what these factors and use them to achieve earth shattering results with women right now...

They want a combo- If you think they only want a few things in their man than you are strongly mistaken. Do you know why some men always say women demand a lot? Because they just simply do it's in their nature. You see women want a total combo of all the social, emotional and physical elements in their man.

They believe that you should be confident- Confidence is the key in every area of life and it can do wonders for you if you know how to use it right in the dating world therefore learn to develop a strong self confidence.

You must be smarter than them- Women want you to be smart and they would only be impressed if you out smart them therefore learn to develop your intellectual skills.

They fear your past- Now this is something you should always be honest about. You should never hide any relationships or flings you have had in the past as women have tools to figure it out themselves therefore it's better to tell them than to get caught.

They want you to desire them- Women want a man who can love them and desire them all their life irrespective of their physical appearance and the changing times.

Seven Things That Can Wreck Your Life

Sex ... Money ... Power ... Fame ... Good Looks ... Ambition ... Success

                                   By:

If any of these Seven become tangled up in the Seven Deadly Sins (Lust, Gluttony, Greed, Sloth, Wrath, Envy, and Pride), look out! Otherwise, they are simply to be enjoyed, but not to bet the farm on - it's only when we begin to grasp blindly at these things that we head down a precarious and deluded path. Grasping blindly means that we see these as some kind of truth, an unchanging truth where can find our eternal security and happiness. This is of course impossible; these seven things are transient, and they will disappear in a short period of time.

An ignorance of their extremely temporary status, combined with a refusal to acknowledge or even be aware of spiritual things beyond these temporal things, sets us up for tremendous suffering. When we expect things to be good, and they turn out not to be, this is a basic ignorance of how things really are.

If these seven things were ultimate truths, why must we continuously relive them?

Sex can be a bother. It's not as if you can have sex once and say, "There, that's it! I'm satisfied!" No, you will have to revisit sex maybe as many as 18,000 times in a lifetime, or more!

And money can be such a worry. We worry about getting it, then holding on to it, how to spend it wisely, and how to get even more because we never feel that we have enough. Few rich people have a peaceful mind (until they give it all away).

Power is an enemy creator; someone will always be jealous of your power and want to take it from you. Few respect power; they respect leadership, power intimidates them.

Fame is a real inconvenience. Once we become famous and our lives become public property, seclusion is no longer an option. The short-lived high of attention quickly becomes a long-term liability.

Good looks, unfortunately, fade just as sand slips through an hourglass. Even with face-lifts and other cosmetic improvements, our speech and mannerisms change and give us away, as we worry constantly about getting old.

Ambition isolates us. When we become overly ambitious it's a bet that we become self-centered as well, and self-centeredness is the opposite of compassion.

Finally, worldly success is always destined for failure in the end. Success means that we have temporarily attained our intended purpose, but since everything in the world constantly changes, our success is always short-lived.

These seven things - Sex, Money, Power, Fame, Good Looks, Ambition, and Success never work out as well as we imagine they might. On the other hand, poverty, powerlessness, infamy, common looks, non-ambition, worldly non success, and the absence of sex; these are more or less the realities of a monk or nun's life, and perplexingly, lead to happiness.

Taking a stand between these extremes is what works for most people: Sex, but responsible sex; money, but only as much as you really need; control, but not overbearing control; distinction, but always an underplayed distinction; natural appearance, not false representations; goals and aims, but within the restrictions of non-greed and honesty; and finally, success, but not restricted to only the world - success must include a sincere reaching out toward our Ultimate Reality.

Then the seven things that can wreck your life may change into the seven things that can save your life: Virtue, generosity, loving kindness, serenity, truthfulness, determination, and wisdom.

How To Make Your Lips Your Most Valuable Tool

You don't have to talk much for your lips to say it all! 

The more we are attracted to somebody, the more we look at their lips. We use our lips to talk, pout, and get the attention we want.

Your lips are one of your best flirting tools, so it's important that they be moist, well cared for, and smile readily.

There are several ways you use your mouth to flirt, and the more comfortable you get, the stronger the come-on can be. Smiling coyly, licking your lips, or touching your lips with your finger, a pen or a lock of hair...your lips can convey exactly what you're thinking.

A big part of your success in flirting with your mouth depends on your smile. Here are some tips for making sure your flirtatious smile says what you want it to:

Flirt Tip #1: A nose that's lifted and wrinkled shows playfulness. If your nose wrinkles when you smile, you love to giggle and tease.

Flirt Tip #2: Raised eyebrows with a small smile and good eye contact expresses interest.

Flirt Tip #3: Are you smiling to be social or do you mean it? The lips go up at the corners when you are truly happy.

Flirt Tip #4: Your eyes and your mouth should both participate when you smile. Smiling eyes and raised cheeks will make your smile shine brightly.

Flirt Tip #5: To send a message of confidence, smile and raise your chin. Not too high, though. You don't want to appear cocky.

Flirt Tip #6: If you are feeling very comfortable, sticking your fingers in your mouth while maintaining eye contact is a definite come-on!

Do men and women both use their lips to attract the opposite sex? You bet they do! Make sure you know what your lips are saying the next time you try flirting with the opposite sex.

Top 10 Ways To Slow The Flow Of Attraction

                                        

                                Top 10 Ways to Slow The Flow Of Attraction
                                                            by Jay Perry and Thomas J. Leonard

Attraction is the idea that we all draw things, people, opportunities and even our 'higher' selves to us. The trick is to attract the best of these, not everything. Along that line, here are some of the things that limit or slow down one's natural attractive powers.

1. Lie to yourself or others.

Not telling the truth, kidding yourself, living a pipedream, exaggerating, pretense.

2. Overload your life.

Cramming your life so full of things that there is not room for anything new to flow in.

3. Accumulate what's not needed.

Seeking to grab whatever you can, whenever you can.

4. Mislabel.

Mistaking your ego for your Self. Sometimes the line is confusing.

5. Assign too much significance.

Making things more important or significant than they really are.

6. Become dependent or stuck on.

Becoming stuck on to a person, situation, goal, substance, belief, idea or job to the point where you live for it instead of relating with life itself.

7. Ignore what life is bringing you.

Focusing on what you think you should be focused on instead of what life is telling you to focus on.

8. Acquire Attractiveness.

Trying to be naturally attractive by emulating others or just 'doing' the Attraction Principles instead of just being yourself.

9. Neediness.

Needing something and not being aware of what it is, or by not admitting the need.

10. Don't trust yourself.

Not responding immediately and fully to inklings, intuition and instincts.

You have seen it done often in the movies and probably on the street in darkened corners. The French kiss is a timeless and passionate gesture of romantic affection. Here are the top ten tips to make this as smooth as possible.

1. Keep your lips moistened. Dry lips do not make for good kisses.

2. Don't forget to angle your head. You don't want to end up bumping noses, that ruins the moment. Trust me.

3. Close your eyes. Looking someone dead in the eye while they kiss you can sometimes kill the mood.

4. Explore with your tongue. Just like anything in life, you don't want it to be boring. Remember, a hard tongue is a huge turnoff.

5. Go slow. Some things in life just have to be take slow. This is one of them.

6. Mix it up. Get away from the ordinary, try small kisses first, then go for the big one.

7. Read body language. See how the other person is reacting to your kisses. Use that to adjust.

8. Try to develop your own style. Become unique at this. Don't be like the other person they kissed.

9. Definitely do not want to bump teeth. Teeth are very sensitive. It's not only awkward, it hurts too.

10. Last but not least, don't forget to breathe! Probably the most important part, you don't want to pass out during your smooch. Unless of course you literally want your breath taken away by your partner :).

Whether you live in Paris, France, or Paris, Texas, you can learn how to kiss like the French do without an embarrassing faux pas!

They Don't Even Know You Exist

Sa Aking Pagtulog

Takipsilim.
Nagsisimula ng umuwi ang mga tao sa kani-kanilang bahay.Sa buong maghapong pagta-trabaho ay langit na ang isiping sa wakas ay makakauwi na ako.Ngunit ang aking mga hakbang ay parqang sobra ang bigat kasi ang tahanan ko ay simbolo na ng pait at luha.


Kung di lang sa tatlong kerubim na nakatira doon ay di na ako uuwi.Sila lang naman ang dahilan sa aking pagsisikap ngayon.
Sa umaga ay parang ang hirap bumangon.Minsan ayoko na nga ang bumangon.May mga araw na ayokong magising na lang sana.Bakit pa ba ako buhay ngayon?Di ba dapat wala na ako kasi wala ng silbi buhay ko.Patay na puso ko at kasama nito ang mga pangarap na binuo ko kasama ang taong ginagago lang ako.


Ngunit sa di inaasahan na pagkakataon ay may nakilala ako.Minulat nya ang aking isipan at puso na di sinasadya.


Natatakot ako sa bawat araw na dumarating.Namamalayan ko kasi na may nabubuong damdamin ako para sa kanya.Ang hirap hirap.Naiiyak ako tuwing nararamdaman ko ang lubhang pagkabagot habang hinihintay ang tawag nya.


Ilang oras na lang,gagabi na naman.Di ko na alam kung ano ang gagawin upang makatulog agad upang iwasan ang isipan sya.Ngunit kahit anong himbing ko ay nagigising rin lang naman ako eh.Minsan sa hatinggabi at wari ay ang sikip sikip ng aking dibdib.Naiiyak na lang ako sa mga oras na  naalala sya kasi para itong isang sumpa na nagsasaad ng aking habambuhay na pagkabilanggo sa nararamdaman kong ito.


 Gusto ko ng maging malaya.Gusto ko ng magmahal ng buong-buo.Pero papaano ako makakaalis sa seldang kinalalagyan ko ngayon?Anong klaseng parusa ito?

I Belong To You

Inevitable

Women are more susceptible to getting into the wrong relationship when lonely.Sometimes,it would just appear out of nowhere that when a friend would ask about how  it started, that is the only time that the individual will start to contemplate on how one morning she wakes up feeling gooey over a certain guy.


Me?..I am tired..so tired caring.I told myself  that I will never ever care for a guy again.It seems pointless,void and ultimately suicidal in a sense.


 Then I laid my eyes upon you...and pooff..!


 Haha..sorry,but, I want to make this a little childish.


Well, Blazing Fire came into my life and started causing havoc within.He merely talk in the most gentle way,chuckle a little on my jokes and made a few low-key remarks and like a newbie on love department, I fall in love.


Is that all?..NO...But I can't write about it...and I don't know why..

If Only I Could

For the first time,I lost the power of words.Friends and family used to tell me that is what I am good at.But when you came,everything changed.I could not even bring myself to write a page in my journal.

Please Say Something

 Some of the quotes I super-love from a fellow blogger.




 I think I am afraid to love sometimes. I think I am scared. I am the type to like things that are concrete, like the ocean, something you could point to and know what it is and I think that’s why I struggle with love. I couldn’t touch it. I couldn’t hold on to it and make sure it never changed. 


Life is all about risks, and it requires you to jump. Don’t be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have or could have had. No one lives forever.


Love is a funny thing. You expect it to be easy. You expect it to be a world of roses and laughs and perfect moments that you find only in movies. You expect him to always say the right thing, and always know exactly how you feel, or exactly how to react to it. You expect him to calm you down when you’re yelling or to chase you when you run away. You expect so much that you feel entirely, utterly defeated when something doesn’t exactly match up with all your plans. But that’s the thing. 


Love isn’t a plan. It doesn’t have a certain beginning and it certainly has no end or visible finish line to those deeply in it.


Love is so incredibly messy. People around you can’t comprehend why you do the things you do, or why you fight so hard for something that seems to cause you so much pain, because simply, they can’t see. They can’t see the invisible ring of insanity that surrounds you when you’re in love. It’s inconvenient and painful and devastating at times, but we can’t live without it.


 What you don’t learn is how hard love is. How much work it takes. How much of ourselves we have to put into it. How it isn’t worth it until we are complete and utter idiots about it.Love isn’t him calming you down when you yell. It’s him yelling, just as loud, just as hard, right back at you, right in your face to wake you up and to keep you grounded. It isn’t him bringing you roses everyday or cute things that make your relationship appear more presentable. It’s after a long fight, that drains the life and bones right out of you both, and yet him showing up at your door the next morning anyway. It’s not him saying all the right things or knowing exactly how to handle you. So no, it’s not her caressing your hair and telling you that everything’s going to be alright. It’s him standing there, admitting he’s just as scared as you are. 


You have to remember that with love, you’re not the only one involved. You’ve unknowingly put your life, your heart into the palms of another person’s hand and said “here". Do what you will. Mash it into mince meat. Or forget I ever handed it to you. As long as you have it.”It makes us crazy. It makes us invisible and it erases all the lines that we shouldn’t cross. 


Because love isn’t about fencing ourselves in; feeling safe, feeling sure about the future. It’s about scaring the crap out of every nerve in our body, but pushing forward anyway. Because all the fighting and all the tears and all the uncertainty is worth it. And it’s a lot better than being 100% happy without someone to show us that there is a world of difference between feeling ‘happy’ and feeling whole.Life is a challenge, and so is love. 


Things never come easy in life; if they do, memories are rare, suffering won’t get you through the tough times, there’s nothing to look back on. There’s no mistakes that you learn from. In the end, it’s all worth it.


I’m sick of being the only one trying. When I’m long gone and no longer giving a second thought about you, you’re gonna wish you tried.


 Promise yourself to be strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind; to talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet; to make all your friends feel that there is something worthwhile in them; to look at the sunny side of everything and to make your optimism come true, to think only of the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best; to be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own; to forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future; to wear a cheerful expression at all times and give a smile to every living creature you meet; to give so much time to improving yourself that you have no time to criticize others; to be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble; to think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud word, but in great deeds; to live in the faith that the whole world is on your side, so long as you are true to the best that is in you. 


 Believe in the power of believing. Believe in fairy tales for what they can teach you about real life. Believe in happy endings, and believe they don’t always happen. 


Believe in something, anything, that gives you the courage and strength to continue on. Believe it when a friend says you’re beautiful. Believe that you deserve to be happy. 


Believe that you have choices and that you can choose wisely. Believe in your own intuition. Believe that you can do more with your life than you’re doing, and then do it. Above all, believe in yourself.

A long time ago, I had a chance of meeting a person that changed my whole life.If not because of him, I wouldn't be where I am now nor I would be this happy,stable and strong person.He may have left leaving a little pain but I will stop being grateful for what he did.


Thank you for everything.


I found this blog and the author has perfectly expressed every single word I wanna say, that is why I re-blogged it.




“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you've never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn't exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.” 

 Today, I am blessed to have found this blog "LIFE IS A BEAUTIFUL STRUGGLE" and I want to share it .


1. I miss you. No, let me correct that, I miss the old you. I miss the old you that cared about me and the old you that would treat me so well. The old you that would talk to me every day and always have me smiling. I miss the old you that made me happy and knew what to say at any given point in time. I miss the old us.                                        2. The good are never easy, the easy, never good. And love, it never happens like you really think it should.        3. You can’t love without risk. Sometimes, love is a terrible idea, except that it’s not an idea. Sometime love leaves suddenly and it’s as if you were lying to the other person all this time, or they were lying to you. Sometimes you want to be loved back and you think if they’ll just hear your case, if you present the evidence before them as if in a court of law, they will concede to your argument, and love you the way you love them, forever even, and then you’ll both get to be happy. But that’s not how it works. You jump from the plane and hope your parachute opens. The other person is that parachute. So if you can, jump over water, and from not too great of a height.        4. God’s plan is always the best. Sometimes, the process is painful and hard, but don’t forget that when God is silent, He’s doing something for you.       5. I have faith that God will show you the answer. But you have to understand that sometimes it takes awhile to be able to recognize what God wants you to do. That’s how it often is. God’s voice is usually nothing more than a whisper, and you have to listen very carefully to hear it. But the other times, in those rare moments, the answer is obvious and rings as loud as a church bell.         6. I want a life that sizzles and pops and makes me laugh out loud. And I don’t want to get to the end, or to tomorrow, even, and realize that my life is a collection of meetings and pop cans and errands and receipts and dirty dishes. I want to eat cold tangerines and sing out loud in the car with the windows down and wear pink shoes and stay up all night laughing and painting my nails the exact color of the sky right now. I want to sleep hard on clean white sheets and throw parties and eat ripe tomatoes and read books so good they make me jump up and down, and I want my everyday to make God belly laugh, glad that he gave life to someone who loves the gift.     7. I don’t know why we all hang on to something we know we’re better off letting go. Its like we’re scared to lose what we really don’t have. Some of us say we’d rather have that something than nothing, but the truth is to have it halfway is harder than not having it at all.                                                                                                                                                                     8. “But I trust in your UNFAILING love; my heart rejoices in your salvation. I will sing to the LORD, for he has been good to me. (Psalm 13:5-6)                                      9. Every girl deserves to be with someone who appreciates them, and who gets how funny, sweet, amazing, adorable and sexy they are, you know? Someone who wakes up every morning thinking, “oh my God, I’m with her.”                                      10. At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don’t keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That’s how we’re made. So you can waste your life drawing lines, or you can live your life crossing them.11. No matter what I do, I always forget to forget you. 12. You have to decide what’s important. Keeping your pride and getting nothing. Or taking a risk and maybe…maybe having everything.13. At this age, the worst thing you can do to yourself his fall for someone harder than they fall for you.14. I should’ve been chasing you. I should’ve been trying to prove that you’re all that mattered to me. ~ All We’d Ever Need (Lady Antebellum)15. Every one of us is losing something precious to us. Lost opportunities, lost possibilities, feelings we can never get back again. That’s part of what it means to be alive. But inside our heads- at least that’s where I imagine it- there’s a little room where we store those memories. A room like the stacks in this library. And to understand the workings of our own heart, we have to keep on making new reference cards. We have to dust things for every once in a while, let in fresh air, change the water in the flower vases. In other words, you’ll live forever in your own little private library.16. Sometimes, I think we waste our words and we waste our moments, and we don’t say what’s in our hearts when we have the chance.17. We are all guilty of saving old messages from someone who became really special in our lives and going to familiar places that gives us that small twinge in our hearts and smiles on our faces. It’s one of the most bittersweet feelings ever because every time that person crosses our minds, we remember the instances when we were happy and complete                                         .18. I just need to know that it’s possible that two people can stay happy together forever.19. There comes a time in every life when the world gets quiet and the only thing left is your own heart. So you’d better learn to know the sound of it. Otherwise, you’ll never understand what it’s saying. 20. Isn’t it amazing how a person who once was just a stranger, suddenly meant the world to you?               

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Don't Ring Twice

 Seemingly altruistic, I have decided not to bother people I kind of develop feelings of.If that person loves me, he will show it in actions that I don't have to trigger or evoke.


*then without expecting it, the man I pertain to called*


 Well, it is too early to chatter about things I am incapable of controlling.Come what may then.

Every Single Day, I Wish You Are With Me

My Logic:“No, he will never see you the way you wanted to and whatever you have will never turn to something more in the future. Stop......Please...... Just stop....Can you afford another heartbreak? .”

My Heart: “But he makes me feel so good....He is the reason why I am smiling right now..and I am ready to risks my heart again..Who knows?"

I found this in one of the blogs I have been seriously following and her words hit the right spot.Imagine, all the things she mentioned were all true.I have experienced it all!

 How foolish of me then.

Life's lesson are the hardest when the person you thought won't hurt you will inflict so much pain beyond you could take.

Yet,life goes on..and the good news is ,I found I am happier than ever.

  Yesterday, I received a message from my dear friend, Chona, she told me that it is time for me to move on to the next chapter of my life.I knew she means I need to love again.


 Her message made me contemplate. Am I ready to risk my heart again? Am I prepared to the accompanying pain?


 Ohh,godd....I was almost in tears just by thinking how hard my life has been.I couldn't possibly be a victim of pretensions.I will never subject myself to the illusion of being loved.


 Yes, I could love..but to think I am being loved in return?That is purely nonsense!NO one could love me.Nobody will.And I have accepted that sad truth.

Violent Demise' Favorite Quotes

A hopeless romantic that is what I am.
Well, this is me.
Whether you like it or not....




It is so hard to be stranded by a love story especially when you are currently feeling the near end but the story isn’t ending. Much confusing is today he loves you. Tomorrow, he doesn’t care. Tonight, you are special. The next day you are nothing.

Don’t you hate it when you cry over the things you can’t have? When you were a little girl, it was that a special toy. Now? It is that special boy.

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I’ve always been hurt by the one I love. Always been loved by the person I don’t. The hard thing here is even though I tried to choose the one who loves me; still my heart belongs to the person who hurts me.

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Why do tears came rushing when you are hurting so much? It is because it’s the only way how your eyes speak when your mouth can’t explain how things made your heart broken.

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How do I say goodbye to someone I never had?
Why do my tears fall for someone who wasn’t mine?
Why is it that I miss someone I was never with?
Why do I love someone whose love cannot be mine..?

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It’s easy to say goodbye but too hard to forget.

why?

Coz love is more than words can say… once you’ve fallen

you cant help fall over and over again.

So if goodbyes have been said, there’s something in the

heart that says… ” PLEASE STAY”.

Why?

Coz its LOVE.

And the reason is unknown. Despite the pain and the heartaches

Love will always retain….

its pride

its sweetness

its mystery…

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When you’re attracted to someone it just means that your subconscious is attracted to their subconscious, subconsciously, so what we know as fate is two neuroses knowing that they’re a perfect match. ~Jeff Arch, Nora Ephron, and David S. Ward, Sleepless in Seattle

Love is when you miss him even before he’s gone,
When you could listen to him talk all night
And never get tired of hearing his voice,
When the sound of his name sends chills down your spine,
And when you see his smile the second you close your eyes!

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There are things in life that you can’t hold on to forever no matter how much you fight for it. Sometimes DESTINY isn’t always good, it becomes playful…When you meet someone you learn to love, you think that it’s DESTINY who made your paths cross. But what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game DESTINY plays, making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you wasn’t really meant to stay… but only destined to make you feel loved and then leave you when you’ve already fallen…

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” I’m inlove but he doesnt care… Maybe he does, but not enough… Maybe he thinks im fun and nice to be with … but not enough.. Maybe he does like me.. but not enough.. Not enough to let down his guard, take risk… And knowing that nothing is enough.. Its enough reason for me to slowly let go…. STOP not because im hurting, not because im sad and scared… But because i LOVE ………….MORE ….”

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” Once you undergo a failed relationship, the pain is always left unaided, everyone thinks you move on… but you’ll later realized.. You never stopped loving them.. You just learn how to deal with it. “

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” I guess when you LOVE someone, you’ll realize that it would never be about you and how you want your relationship to be… Its about staying intact and finding ways of making things alright when life says they shoudn’t be…. Its called defying all the odds for something they call……… EVERYTHING.  “

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“Too often, the thing you want most is the one thing you can’t have. Desire leaves us heartbroken, it wears us out. Desire can wreck your life. But as tough as wanting something can be. The people who suffer the most, are those who don’t know what they want.

Is This L0ve?

June 25,2012

 ..bored ako kaya naisip kong magbasa ng blogs ng iba and I stumbled upon this by 25pesoscupnoodles:

Pag-aalinlangan (iN-LaB kA ba TaLaGa)?

Posted on Abril 2, 2012 

“hayaang panahon ang magpahayag ng iyong tapat at wagas na pag-ibig”

Nandiyan ka na ba?

Inaantay kasi kita.

May nais akong sabihin sa iyo,

Sana nga nariyan ka na.

Tungkol ito sa pahayag mo,

‘Diba sabi mo mahal mo ako?

Nagtaka talaga ako,

Alam mo ba kung bakit?

Sigh……

Ang bilis mo kasing magmahal,

Alam mo namang’ may usapan tayo.

Sa una pa lang nagkasundo na tayo,

Bawal “ma-inlove”, hinde ba?

Na love-at-first-sight ka ata,

Diba hinde mo pa ako nakikita?

O baka sa sulat ko nabighani ka?

Totoo nga bang in-love ka?

Ganyan ka ba talaga?

Hinde naman kasi biro ang magmahal,

Lalo sa taong, ni hinde pa nakikita.

Sa ‘di mo kakilala, at lalo pa’t sa ‘di mo nakasama.

Kung nariyan ka nga, nais kong itanong ‘sayo,

Ang pag-ibig mo bang inihayag ay wagas at tapat?

Sa palagay ko’y tanging panahon lang ang makakapagsabi….