Earlier this year, I made a vow not to be desperate for a change in my love life.I shouldn't rush nor force myself to love.If a person is meant for me, he will come at the accorded time without too much wishing or praying.Why do I sound like a person who has done so much and end up hurting?Well, I have been through hell by loving.I have spent endless nights crying over something I shouldn't have focused on.

Wiser and tougher now, I have learned to be more cautious with the way I react to the tide of emotions threatening to wash me over the bay of pain.